Everything I learned about girl-on-girl dating was through trial and error.
Lucky for you, I've made every rookie mistake in the book, and I'm here today to share my wealth of screw-ups.
There are so many "straight" girls on Tinder who are just seeking out threesomes with their boyfriends. And I don't know about you, but I crave r-o-m-a-n-c-e. I know it's new to you, but a date is a date is a date, and if she wants to pay, let the bitch pay. You can be a fully femme lipstick lez and enjoy taking a girl out for a night on the town. You and the chick you're dating will figure out a rhythm that works for you. If you want to wear mega heels and shocking pink lipstick, rock it, girl.
If you're new to being gay, online dating is your best friend.
Don't give me the prim "I don't like dating apps" garble. I don't love dating apps either, but sh*t, it's hard to meet someone in And sadly, lesbian bars are being shut down at an alarming rate.
That's when I started matching with the girls I liked. I think this was one of the biggest points of stress I faced when I first started dating girls. Here is what I learned after years and years of relentless bill anxiety: You can, of course, split the check. The lines can already get easily blurred between friendship and love in lesbian land, so I think it's important to draw distinct lines. If you're racked with fear about the whole bill thing, I have a simple solution: Offer to pay the bill. However, if the girl you're on a date with is vehement about paying the bill, let her pay, babes. If you like that look, wear all the blazers your heart desires.
But if that's not your jam, don't feel the pressure to play the part. One of the best parts about the girl-on-girl dynamic is that there isn't really any slut-shaming (as far as my experience goes) in our culture. When you celebrate the core of who you are, all the formerly displaced pieces will fall into place. Being true to yourself gets you tapped into your instincts on a whole other level.
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