But he would call me every day to see how I was doing after my surgery? So, do German men text or write (whatsapp) sweet greetings? We both travel a lot and could meet up but only discussed Jan and his next year’s work meeting at this point. I think getting clarity when you're in your 30s is a good thing. @Inka - The Saudi prince sounds more like your style :)Sounds like you found a great one :) Love your perspective on us Germans!
If he likes you, he will want to include you in those travel plans.
He may even do all the research and pre-trip planning as well as my partner did when we were dating.
He will ask at least several days in advance, assuming that you have your life planned out in advance as he does.
He’s also likely to ask you to do something based on a shared interest. Germans often meet someone from a common interest group, so if you want to date a German, find a hobby group and attend regularly. In fairness to them, this is because many German girls are also about going “dutch” so they’ve used to this.
For better or for worse, you will know where you stand with your German guy.