Searchmate has disputed Aileen’s claims and said it had not received any correspondence from her after the letter was sent in November.
It said it made a number of attempts to call her since, but that it had not been able to reach her.
In total, the site offered the man four suitable profiles “in his area” – none of which met his criteria.
One of them lived hundreds of miles away in Ireland and would be unreachable without an expensive ferry or plane journey.
So in May last year Aileen stumped up £1,295 for membership.