What I’ve learned is that ignoring the obvious signs can lead to unnecessary heartache.
What I hate most is when the disappointment is so big that it just messes up several days in a row that would have been better spent on happiness. How do you “break up” with someone you’re barely even dating?
With some men I’ve had to make it super clear and vocalize that we are no longer seeing each other.
It mainly helps ME to hear it and then I’m obligated to stand by my word.
Conversely, it’s okay for you to approach someone you’re lightly dating and be honest with YOURSELF about what you want from the interaction.