Rather than directing the course of the relationship, God wants the couple to grow and learn how to make a commitment.Once they've done that, God increases his sustaining presence.In an arranged marriage, the fun starts after the wedding!
But I do know this— if you rely on this idea too much, your dating life will get really confusing.
Some Christians take a lot of comfort in the idea that God will do the heavy lifting when it comes to dating.
Of course, there are biblical principles that are essential to dating.
If you follow the biblical prescriptions for gentleness, respect, sexual purity, and kindness (Gal.
Falling in love before you got married or engaged is a twentieth-century concept. In college, I had an older professor from Japan whose marriage had been arranged.